Before you get yourself all worked up and angry, ask yourself what exactly you are fighting for? Are you fighting for his love and affection? That is something he has to give you willingly. You can’t force him to love you. You can’t convince him to love you, either.
Why would you even want to stay in a relationship with someone who doesn’t freely love you? Are you afraid of change? Do you think he will find someone better than you?
Trying to force someone to stay with you and to love you is wrong on so many levels. You are limiting yourself to a person who is not in love with you and you are wasting everyone’s time with your childish, selfish behavior. Instead, let him go and work on your own personal growth. Stay out of relationships for awhile until you can find your own two feet. Work on your education, attend self help groups, and even pick up a new hobby or two. Do what is really best for you and accept that not every relationship lasts forever and ever.
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